The PLAYBOOK is your custom-designed set of tools, values, strategies, and decisions that help you make consistent, intentional choices. It’s your internal compass—rooted in clarity, confidence, and commitment
In "Be the CEO of Your Life," the PLAYBOOK is one of the foundational metaphors Dan Leonardi uses to guide readers toward intentional living, personal leadership, and long-term success. Just as a CEO uses a business playbook to align strategies, goals, and actions, individuals need a Personal Playbook to navigate life and career with purpose.
Core Elements of the PLAYBOOK
Why It Matters
Without a PLAYBOOK, people react instead of lead. They chase success defined by others rather than create a life defined by their own values and vision. The PLAYBOOK is how you shift from drifting to driving.
Ask yourself…
Investing time to embrace “The Three Stages of Life”
Stage 1: Knowledge Wealth - Ages 20-30
– Invest in learning, mentorship, and real-world experience – Build your mindset, skills, and decision-making capacity
Stage 2: Financial Wealth - Ages 30-40
– Apply your knowledge to create value and generate income – Make intentional financial decisions, avoid lifestyle traps
Stage 3: Compounding & Legacy - Ages 40+
– Let your knowledge, habits, and money compound over time – Focus shifts from accumulation to impact and significance
CEO Mindset: Wealth isn’t just what you earn—it’s what you multiply and leave behind.
The reason why you are feeling lost, or your career is stalled, is due to one or more of the following. Don't feel bad; you're not alone. As the CEO OF YOUR LIFE, it is time to turn YOUR LIFE around.
Lack of Clarity or Direction - Many individuals struggle with defining what success actually means to them. Without a personal vision or roadmap, they drift—often working hard, but without intentionality.
Beyond Education - Challenge the belief that success is guaranteed by degrees alone. A core theme is that 90% of meaningful learning happens after school, through experience and relationships. Early in his management career, Dan Leonardi was introduced to a concept developed by The Center for Creative Leadership, known as the 70:20:10 Rule, which focuses on the Three Levels of Learning. The rule set the stage for his personal growth by highlighting that EDUCATION is 10% learning, RELATIONSHIPS are 20% learning, and EXPERIENCES are 70% of learning. This rule instantly changed his life. Having quit college after two years, this rule gave him the confidence and roadmap to learn beyond education… He found a new way to learn by building relations and listening to others. He got out of his comfort zone and started to experience the practical work...winning sometimes, failing most of the time. He was suddenly learning beyond education, leveraging his strengths in a new, remarkable way! Success came more easily when he applied his years of education and began to incorporate other approaches, such as relationships and experiences, to enhance his personal and career development.
In "Be the CEO of Your Life," Dan Leonardi has dedicated an entire chapter explicitly titled “Givers and Takers.” The spirit of that distinction is deeply woven into the philosophy that frames key attributes in leadership, mentorship, relationships, and legacy building.
Givers: The Builders, Mentors, and Multipliers
Lead from a place of service, authenticity, and growth… being genuine.
EXAMPLE: Dan often reflects on the people who have helped him along the way—associates, bosses, mentors, teammates, and even students, all who have given him perspective or support. Think of it this way… “What kind of dinner conversation will someone have about you tonight after a day of working with you?” Will they say you were a “GIVER” or a “TAKER?”
Takers: The Extractors, Drainers, and Opportunists
Where It Connects to the CEO's Mindset
As “CEO of Your Life,” you’re responsible not only for what you build, but how you build it—and who you build it with.
Your legacy is defined by what you gave away, not what you hoarded.
Dependent Phase
The goal in this phase is to recognize that it’s OK to be INFLUENCED by others.
Independent Phase
Theme: "I’ll figure it out on my own."
The key is learning that independence isn’t the destination—it’s a bridge.
Interdependent Phase
Theme: "Together, we go further.“ It’s “WE” not “I/ME.”
This is where legacy is built—by using your strength to elevate others.
The Moral of Interdependence
Building a Legacy
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